COACHING METHOD
The Coaching knowledge vault of Mads Bonke consists of Co-Active Coaching, CTI Leadership, The Enneagram, Esoteric Philosophy, Wim Hof breathwork, ID University, Authentic Presence and inspiration from countless books, talks, podcasts and inspirational people. But most of all from the best teachers there is - experience working with hundreds of Coaching clients creating authenticity, progress and magic.
COACHING METHOD
The three principles of Offence, Defense and Attraction are the key pillars in the journey – that will create a perfect pyramid to bring out that authentic you – that will bring freshness, purpose, and magic into your life.
OFFENCE
Values, Goals, Purpose, Progress, Action Plan, Calling forth, Accountability, Focus.
Nothing is more motivating than experiencing progress towards your goal. A living and joyous goal – that will excite and pull you forward. With clear values, a strong intent, measurable and achievable goals.
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DEFENCE
Daily practice, Recovery, Presence, Meditation, Breathwork, Foundation Program.
A strong foundation is key to have the fortitude to move forward. Know yourself and become strong and robust, so that you stand firm when the wind is not in your favor. This includes daily practice, meditation, breathwork, presence etc.
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ATTRACTION
Sourcing, Gratitude, Championing, Authentic Presence, Inspiration.
What you focus on grows is a universal truth. How we interact with other people and our intent makes the whole difference. And finding that authentic place within will make a major change – and other people respond to you in a new and better way.
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FIELDWORK
Accountability, Commitment, Action, Putting in the Work.
Where ever the dialogue is taking us and whatever insights and focus there is in the coaching session – we always add action in order to deepen the learning and have continuous progress. This is called fieldwork.
It makes it all real. And it will strengthen and motivate you along your new path.
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In contrast to normal interactions where opinions are discussed and most often everybody want to say their piece and listen far less. Coaching is dialogue and is all about you. And together we explore your thoughts and perspectives.
We use open-ended questions that makes us curious and embark on an adventure to finding your path through life. I will always be championing you and always hold you bigger than you hold yourself. Set the compass of your mind to new thoughts, fresh purposes, and new goals.
And sometimes we might need to dust off some core issues in the basement and bring them into the light to free up limiting beliefs, blockage and stored up energy. Delay is the mother of most failures – so getting into action will renew and refresh you. Self-discovery and personal development can absolutely be a joyous and magical journey. We can all be bigger, be bolder and shine brighter.
Our mind and our ego are designed to keep us out of harm’s way. When we are confronted with situations and feelings we can’t be with – our build-in defense mechanisms will subconsciously take us on a different path, avoid present situations or simple block them out. That is why it is paramount to have another person along for the journey to see your blind spots – and why Coaching is such an effective method to bring newness and authenticity into your life.
The whole situation can sometimes change with a new and fresh perspective on the situation. New insights and limiting beliefs can shift – many of the thought processes we have – we take for granted and for universal truths.
Bringing them into the light will create change and new insights. We will make sure the learning sticks, so that we don’t have to go through the same problems again and again – and we are off to conquer new territories.
Coaching principles
MADS BONKE COACHING
Coaching is an effective way to grow as an individual by having another person actively listening to you, to challenge and championing you. Living, working and developing to the fullest require robust vulnerability: daring to open up and to act decisively at the same time.
We will work as a team to build a better you and constantly progress towards your purpose and goals.
That is the promise of Coaching.